This has been a tough year for everyone, including the kids. From having to miss months of school to being kept separate from family and friends, 2020 has really taken a toll on all of our mental health. While parents have the chance to give their mental health a boost by switching off the news, venting to some friends on Zoom or indulging in a hobby, it isn’t so easy for kids to express how they are feeling. Here are some tips to help you nurture your child’s mental health and help them feel more settled and comfortable.
- Schedule in family time together
- Limit screen time for everyone – parents included
- Make play and exercise a requirement for everyone to help get them moving
- Respond in a calm and level headed manner if you notice they seem withdrawn
- Be patient
- Believe them when they open up to you
- Recognise and reward positive behaviour
- Be there for them, even if they aren’t interested in talking
- Show them affection
- Be open and truthful with them
- Set and respect boundaries
- Make sure they are eating nutritious meals and sleeping well
- Suggest ways they can express themselves through journaling or painting
- Surround them with positive role models
- Consistency is key
- Teach them how to stay safe online and in real life and that they should trust their gut
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